Jane9, I understood all your posts and agree 100%. My daughter just finished her first rush as an active. Some of the stories she's shared with me are so upsetting. She mentioned that some chapters increased their gpa requirements which caused greater cuts. From the outside, we can't relate to the pressure placed on these PNMs. There are huge numbers of girls going thru a very competitive rush, combined with the viciousness of social media and tent talk. It is brutal! But I do know of several schools where rush is even more brutal than Ole Miss (IU and Texas.) My daughter feels that A Phi is going to have a great colonization. So that is good to hear!
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