Hi Camarogodes! I will rush in the fall (I'm a senior in high school now) and I have the same jitterbugs!!! I am pretty affable and I don't have a whole lot of trouble when I first meet people, but my biggest concern is that 2 out of 3 of the schools I am considering attending next year hold rushes that I have heard are somewhat selective. There are some sororities, in the South (where I live) especially, that won't really even consider a girl if she doesn't have the proper recommendations at rush. That is my main concern now, lining up contacts and references...but the more I study and ask around, the more I find out. It's exciting and I can't wait, but there's always this looming fear in the back of my mind that's saying "What if I am dropped from a certain house that I love just because I don't have what they need?" AAUGH, it can be so nerve wracking!
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