[Sugar_N_Spice]

I agree w/ Exquizit & Refined Diva. Basically, if you are looking to join an org. for the 'long-term' ideals it upholds, then you'll get over the few bad apples (of which every org. has, regardless of arena--they are everywhere...at your job, school, etc.)...and instead you would remain mature, maintain your composure, & try to improve the situation (which means you would work as hard as you could to possibly obtain membership and make changes within the chapter)...

It's not like you're going to be in college forever anyway...