alright, this might sound a little obvious, but sometime the most effective ways to recruit are the most spontaneous. sometimes we'll invite PNMs to crush parties or to come with us to fraternity or campus parties. it all depends on the girl, i guess, but some like to see that not only are we close as sisters, but also that we like to have a good time. plus, i think COBing can get tough because a lot of girls can be intimidated by the whole "sisters" thing - thats why many don't go through formal rush in the first place. so if we're asking them to come to the house and chill with us, sometimes they aren't all gung-ho. but if we take them to a party or a bar in a group setting, i think it takes away some of the pressure (from them AND us). anyway - it worked for our chapter, we got quite a few COBs through the door that way.
good luck grand mastah, i know you guys can do it.
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