It is difficult to join an organization and called folk Brother or Soror when you don't like them and when the chapter does not do anything. I know that I would have pursued another organization because my father is in a differenty org. than Alpha but the chapter of my fathers frat at my school were dumb as hell and were not leaders. There is more to life than chasing women and looking pretty
Moving on - - - it is difficult to understand the big picture that Alpha or any other organization is more than a college chapter when you are not yet a member. Anyway, I say all chapters should represent a standard for the entire organization.