to the original question, is Black and White an issue? yes, because alot of people in this country still want it to be. some of you will never experience prejudice based on your race. therefore since you do not see it, you do not understand/believe it to be a reality and i guess unfortunately i can understand that. so this breeds miscommunication on both our parts
lets all try to listen more to each other and try to put yourself in the other person's shoes even if you do not agree, its ok not to agree, don't assume they are just complaining, give them the benifit of the doubt, you might be susprised at what you learn, i've learned that many of the younger generations do not subscribe to their parents/grandparents prejudices, these young men and women do not want to live in a race based priviledged society, they want to be free to listen to rap or country, go to Moorehouse or UCLA and not be questioned about their racial make up on a job appliction. so perhaps there is some progress in the making
with regards to sorority and fraternity membership, i believe you should join the organization you feel you will be able to contribute the most to or get the most out of, if thats your agenda. i've learned that not all black men and women share the same values, interests etc. the same can be said for white men and women. so i don't try to force people into categories that may cramp them. of course not everyone will agree with your decision, but that's life. so go for what you know. GLO or BGLO.
DZ_Theta i'm concerned
that you do not feel comfortable being around black women when you are a black woman. you don't have to be raised in a black community or listen to rap music to feel a connection or want one with your own black sisters, we are very diverse you know or do you? anyway i'm glad you are having sucess in your life and hope that you will continue to do so. although i think it would be healthy and wise for you to work on building some relationships with your black community. take care.
[This message has been edited by PositivelyAKA (edited January 08, 2001).]