This is
SO Bill Clintonish of me, but...
Question to the women...
Do you consider "having sex" to mean
JUST the traditional baby making way (don't want to get graphic here), or are other sexual acts considered sex as well? The reason that I ask is because I once dated a woman who was "saving herself" until marriage, but she did most evertything else!

And she was very good at it (and no, it
wasn't Monica!). Yet she considers herself a "virgin". So, is she?