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have any of your sisters ever known her before she got interested in PM? Sometimes PNMs end up acting really weird bc they're trying so hard to impress the actives. during winter rush, i thought one of our newer girls was really weird but once she got her bid she totally relaxed and was herself. I'm glad we got her because she is SUCH an awesome sister.
I don't think your sisters are telling you thier true feelings if they're using "moody" as an excuse. What girl isn't moody? They're proably trying to be sensitive to your ties with your neighbor.
Also, you never said if YOU want her as a sister or not. It is a good thing to feel responsibility and loyalty to family friends but you also have to be honest with yourself. and keep in mind that honesty to both of you is the best solution in the end. If she is going to get cut, I think it would be worse to let her go thru the rounds until the very end and have her get high hopes. Plus, if she keeps hoping for your house, she will turn a blind eye to the other great houses out there. (trust me from experience...I posted my story somewhere if you're interested)
Do what your heart tells you and make the best and right choice. She might not know she is missing out on the house that she is absolutely perfect for. She'll be hurt at first but when she finds HER house, she'll be glad she found the house that wanted her and that she could give herself to.
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