[KappaKittyCat]

I was 18. My s/o was "ready" before I was; I wanted to wait. When I decided I was ready, I went to Victoria's Secret and got a really sexy nightgown and planned this huge surprise.

On the topic of relationship sex... it's kinda funny. If there's possibly something emotional between me and another person, I hold off on the physicality, 'cuz it means so much more when there are emotions attatched. I'll wait 'til there's a mutual declaration of emotion, intent, and commitment. But if it's a mere release of pent-up energy, then that's another story. Just make sure there's a condom handy.

I will humbly assert my right to know the (general) sexual history of anyone whom I'm going to date seriously, before we get in bed. I will reciprocate, of course, and each of us should get tested before stuff starts happening.