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			okay, i can state that these are my dealbreakers, because in the past i've dated guys w/these qualities and i will NEVER do it again
 -cannot be over a certain age (right now, its 27..it changes as i get older)
 
 -can never have been married
 
 -can not have any kids
 
 -can't be a pothead(occasional smoking out is fine i guess, but not like a daily habit)
 
 - can't do any drugs other than the aforementioned occasional weed
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