-Has poor or no relationship with his family
-abusive verbally or physically
-has few or no friends
-is lazy and unambitious
-has no desire to commit and have family in future
-is clingy, needy and jealous
-has low sex-drive
-has little or no post high school education
-is content to be who he is right now forever, no desire to continue learning and growing and evolving
could keep going, but that'll do it!