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WOW
I think it is really sad when a woman does not know who her child's father is. I think its even worse to tell a man he's the father when you have doubts. In today's age and with all the protection out there, there is no reason that a prenanccy should occur (now I know nothing is 100%,but you can get pretty darn close!). For the situation stated, I think its unfair for this man to have to continue to pay child support legally. Should the mother pay him back, yes but only half. Half because assumming for these 12 years he's been an active part of the child's life, it was paid without question probably because he loved this child. What should the outcome be? I am sure he is hurt! I am sure he will need time. My hope is that the mother will not "poison" the child against him if he takes a little time out. But I do he hope he explains the situaion to the child before he dips.
It's sad but men have no rights and its unfair!
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