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Originally posted by RedefinedDiva
Ok, I am going to give you all the flip side. Pregnancy is NOT an exact science. Therefore, one can not always be sure of the exact time that they get pregnant. Saying that, it is possible that the woman did not know when and for whom she got pregnant (considering that she had more than one partner in a particular time span). Does that make her nasty and trifling? It's all a matter of opinion. Does that make her a liar? If she KNEW that the kid wasn't for a particular man, HELL YEAH! If she honestly didn't know, I can't call her a liar.
It's a catch 22 on the part of the man. He should have asked for a blood test from the beginning. Why wait 12 YEARS to ask for it? But then again, had he asked for a test, it might have seemed like he didn't trust his girl. I don't think that the court has the right to force him to continue to make payments.
Lord, help the children.
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I do not think women should put themselves in situations where if they get pregnant they will not know who the father is. I also think more men should start asking for blood test. Take the baby for a day- swing by the doctors office. Its sad to be deceitful but even sadder to find out years later that the baby is not YOURS.
I have known people who did not know who the father of their child was- How sad! I have also known men who found out at birth that the baby was not theirs- they took a blood test.
MEN YOU NEED TO PROTECT YOURSELF AGAINST NO GOOD WOMEN..........