I do think that if you have the slightest interest, you should check it out. You are right, however, to do what you want in your own life. When I rushed, we had only seven 1st round parties, which wasn't a lot of time to spend with each house. I'd imagine that with 19, you got overwhlemed & every house has kind of blurry. In such a short time, it's hard to get a "feel" for each house, with 19, it had to be crazy! If you think you maybe, coulda, sorta liked a house, or or two, give it some more time. After meeting the girls a few more times, you should have a more clear-cut opinion.
If you do decide not to join, just remember, your parents will get over it, as long as your happy with the choice.
Good luck!
Heidi
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