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Blackwatch, you are totally off base with you post. You have the RIGHT to your OPINION, however, I don't think that you can be the judge of when and/or why men and women choose to have sex. You, also, can not say that people lose the right to choose once they have sex. I may CHOOSE to have sex, but I may NOT choose to become pregnant. There is a difference.
I am not going to judge and say that it is right or wrong to have an abortion because that's another thread. However, if a woman chooses not to carry a baby to term, that's HER business. It has nothing to do with hormones, stretch marks, or other superficial things. It has to do with what she thinks is best. An abortion may be the best option for her. She may not want to raise a child in this world by herself. Men are under NO obligation to stick around. Adoption may not be an good option for her because there are millions of kids out there already that are parentless and growing up in mass group homes. Maybe she just doesn't want kids. I will stop there because I can go on and on, but I want to answer the original question.
I do not think that men should be granted rights to a child that a woman is carrying. After she has the baby, then what? Is the man going to take care of the child, provide a loving environment, raise and nurture the child? It sounds good in theory, but as little as some girls and women know about raising children, men know even LESS. If women think that it's hard to raise a child alone, what is a man going to do? Raising kids is no cakewalk.
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