Where I'm from, it is sort of your duty to take care of your significant other the night of their 21st (boys for girls, girls for boys both)... after all, you care about him and want to make sure he's okay, right?
However, the car thing sounds kind of jerky... he should be a little nicer when you go out of your way for him... and if he doesn't care about your opinion that is not cool. You should have a talk with him.
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