Drop him, and do it about yesterday. If you even have to ask if you're a doormat after all that, then perhaps you need some alone time to do some introspection to find out where the heck your self-esteem went. I'm sure he took care of whatever was there before you were with him. Think about it, how would you like to be married to someone like that? Someone who didn't appreciate you or respect you, someone who would use you for his own purposes and not give a flip about your own needs, is NOT someone you want to even grace w/ your presence. He doesn't deserve you, and frankly I think he needs to be shown what way is up. Good luck to you sweetie!
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