Mine was about half and half.

I came to college still with my homet0wn boyfriend, and therefore wanted to be home every weekend, but didn't have a car.

Because of this, I had no interest in making friends at school (I planned to drop out of school after the first year anyway... I didn't really have any interest in college at that point)... but when he and I broke up about halfway through first semester, I realized that I had no friends, and it sucked, so I had to catch up and start meeting people, when everyone else already had.

Second semester was totally different. I had made quite a few friends, was over the guy from home, and was happy to be in school. I started pledging DO and made the greatest friends I'll ever meet, found a new boyfriend (though it didn't last), and started enjoying my independence!

My best year over all was definitely my sophomore year, though!