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Here are the results of my poll as of August 5:

Your mate is bonding with a member of the opposite sex. Which type of bond most threatens you?

The Ladies (31) say:

1. Spiritual Bond = 6%
2. Emotional Bond = 64%
3. Sexual Bond = 29%

The Fellas (11) say:

1. Spiritual Bond = 9%
2. Emotional Bond = 54%
3. Sexual Bond = 36%

You're very emotionally close to a member of the opposite sex whom your mate knows nothing about. Is it cheating?

The Ladies (22) say:

1. Yes, if it's kept a secret = 31%
2. Yes, if I have feelings for the person = 13%
3. Yes, if the person has feelings for me = 4%
4. Not if there are no feelings involved = 13%
5. No--there's no sex/intimacy = 36%

The Fellas (8) say:

1. Yes, if it's kept a secret = 25%
2. Yes, if I have feelings for the person = 12%
3. Yes, if the person has feelings for me = 0%
4. Not if there are no feelings involved = 0%
5. No--there's no sex/intimacy = 62%