Well i have something to say about Rho-Chis at my school, actually really only about one- mine!! I was going to go through fall rush, its formal here during that time, anyway i had already turned in my application and everything. Well about two weeks before rush was going to start she started calling me to tell me the dates and what not. She called me a total of two times- and was VERY rude,unfriendly, she basically sounded bored and like i was a waste of her time. I was already uneasy about rushing and she made it worse. I never met her, just talked to her over the phone, and i am not saying that she was trying to be rude or bored- maybe she really sounds like that... i dont know- but it didnt make me feel any better. Well now i am determined to go through spring rush, informal rush since its something i have been thinking about for a long time. I am not sure what will happen, but i am going to give it my best. I found out what sorority she is in, and it is already making me not want to join that one because of her- but i am willing to meet more members in her sorority to see how they are. I regret not rushing just because of my rho-chi and the "attitude" she had, but at the time i was just feeling really uncomfortable even talking her. Plus she had told me once that her and our rush group were all going to go to a football game together before rush started and that later she was going to call me on where to meet. Well she never called me- so i dont know if my group even went. Lastly- when i decided i was not going to rush- i called her and told her that i had changed my mind, and it wasnt a good time for me. Well she wasnt home so i left a message on her machine and asked her to call me back leaving my number. Yes i know that maybe one of her roommates heard it and forgot to save it, but it just adds to my list. On a final note, i am not saying this about all rho chis- just letting you know my experience with mine!
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