|
A rec was required for a bid to be given, not to invite the girl back to parties which is what I think robinseggblue meant.
The girls at the OP's school have no idea if recs were sent in for them without their knowledge. If the school is near larger flagship schools where recs are de rigueur and sorority alumnae are writing lots of them, I think it would be likely.
__________________
It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
|