[IndianaSigKap]

I advised a chapter that had married women from time to time. One thing you will need to understand, missing chapter events to be with him or attend a work function of his will not be an excused absence. As long as you BOTH understand the time commitment and you are willing to be present as a member, you should be fine. Over the years, we only had one situation where it was an issue because he assumed that she should be allowed to miss chapter meetings when he was off from work.