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Well I can say with confidence that there are a few tail-tell signs that something is either wrong or it's time to move on:
1) When the physical isn't present. We're not just talking sex here. If you notice the lack of physical contact ~ hugs, holding hands, kisses, or just the backing away from those things (or if they become a nucense) it's a sign something is wrong.
2) You both are going in different directions! While opposits do attract, let's be honest. If you are school/goal oriented and he wants to lay on the couch and watch tv...then there's gonna be a problem eventually. Might as well nip it in the butt now! I KNOW FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE!
3) Your heart says yes but your head says no. It's SO hard to follow your head. But most of the time it knows what is best. Even if it is hard to understand (God I should follow my own advice ~ Right Kate?)
These are just a few things I've found when dealing with the emotion of love. If you're not at the "love" emotion yet but debating...then you probably won't "love" him...it's probably time to move on.
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