[LouisaMay]

Everyone's experience is going to be different. Our first years of marriage were not at all stressful. Just fun and exciting and "cute." Fourteen years and four kids later, we're still very happily married and the best of friends. Don't assume anything! Talk openly with your fiancé about how you would like to spend some of your "free" time. I would think that any good husband would WANT his wife to have interests outside of their relationship. I would be cautious if he didn't!

As for your chapter, talk with your sisters about how you might spend your time differently once you are married, and be respectful of the vow you made to give your best to your organization. It's all about balance.