sweetie there are probably PLENTY of men out there that would accept the fact that you cannot have children. I am interested in adopting a child myself when I get married and so on. My grandma adopted my uncle and he in turn adopted my cousin. I also dated a guy that was adopted by his family. Point being, there are thousands of kids out there that need a loving home and loving parents. Being a mother should be the least of your troubles because there are lots of opportunities out there.
As for you situation now, like a previous poster said, it will come in stages. You will do fine.
And find a new man that loves you for who you are and what you will become. I can feel you on the whole comfortable thing. I was "comfortable" with my last bf for over a year when it really wasn't the best option for me. Plenty of fish in the sea i say.
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