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I really like the "decline with regret" option. Sometimes girls get cut later in the process and rethink rankings. When I rushed, we actually got all the invitations physically, so there were no delusions that "so and so really liked me but somehow, XYZ ranked me higher and bumped me out of so and so's list". You either had an invitation or you didn't. However, as a rush counsellor I definitely saw girls decline invites in early rounds, be cut heavily in later rounds and think to myself that her perfect match may have been left on the floor in round 2. Decline with regret would allow for chapters to extend an invite later. Most times it wouldn't make a difference, but it might...for both the chapter and the PNM. Especially for WRC, but I guess in most locations RFM has taken care of that.
God, I really am a Panhellenic Greek life geek.
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