[ChioLu]

When I went through at Tulsa, I had 3 party invites for (2 party) Pref and had to regret 1. All 3 were/are great chapters and I would have been happy to be in any of the 3. I was tearing up that I had to regret one.

(Your jaw might drop with this next part ...) I was actually able to WRITE on the invite "So sorry I have to reqret. XYZ is a wonderful chapter with amazing women." (The invites were 2 page carbons -- 1 went to Panhellenic, 1 went to the sorority.) On bid night (in my new XO shirt), I saw some of the XYZ girls who came up, hugged me, congratulated me and said they were sad that I had to regret also (b/c they read the copy that went to the chapter), but knew I would have a wonderful Greek experience in Chi Omega.