Thanks greeklawgirl....but now I have another question(s)....
Do sororities 'rank' you, like you rank them? Or do they just decide to either drop you or extend a bid? Can the two sororities that you prefed give you a bid?....If not then how do they decide who is going to give you a bid?
Or is it that when they give you a bid, if you have them as your #1 choice, then you've automatically accepted???

(can you tell that I'm thinking this over as I type....?)
And then what is this about suicide?? Is that when you only put one sorority on your pref card, and then don't get a bid from them?