all great advice, particularly the crying
, that will prob just happen. you can also mention that their skit, philanthropy, etc was your favorite of the week. the actives may ask you some leading questions to try to determine your interest in their chapter. listen carefully and you will most likely have an opportunity to let them know your feelings in a subtle manner. they are not supposed to outright ask you what you are going to pledge or to offer you a bid. good luck and enjoy yourself!!