Cliche as they may sound, you obviously are the one who is unhappy with your fraternity. IFC can be a well-run and helpful tool if used properly. Did you ever go in and talk to the Greek Advisor and ask them about what the hell IFC is doing with your money??
Nobody called anyone stupid and said you "expressed doubts in front of men". I know that when my own chapter had recruitment problems and low morale, you could see it all over their faces during recruitment.
Maybe you should start talking about your doubts and concerns within your brotherhood instead of coming on this site and saying how bad your greek system is and how everyone says join IFC and gives you cliches.
And here's a question...how does being local and producing alums with degrees in Sociology hurt you in recruitment?
You obviously started this post because you were hoping for maybe some advice or counsel on how to make things better at your campus and within your own fraternity. Don't turn around then and act like a jerk because that advice isn't the miracle to make things wonderful.
