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I am torn on the topic. We disclosed all legacies for both DD's and I think I would still do it again but I think having a sitting sister at the same school (a mildly competitive school) was actually more challenging for my younger DD. Sisters of sitting sisters/recent grads almost exclusive pledge their sister's house. In my younger DD case it did turn out to be a good fit in the long run but how awkward is it to be asked at a non-legacy house that has been at the top of your list "So are you and your sister friends?" That's a no win question. Yes translates to some as I want to pledge her house and No can mark you as a girl with all kinds of potential drama.
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