[Sciencewoman]

I think the advice you've been given is very helpful. I think we know where you're coming from, and your academic achievement and focus will certainly be valued. The message I'm taking away from the advice is that in the "rush" of recruitment parties, you're really not going to have a chance to discuss some of your questions in depth. It's going to be a whirlwind as you get "bumped" and chat with sisters for maybe 5 minutes at a time for the first round, then a bit longer for the second round. You may or may not get invited back to chapters you feel are a good fit, academically or otherwise. As much research as you do, you're still going to be caught in the whirlwind, and the sororities really have control over where you are invited each round. This is a far cry from an extended interview, or a research project. I think your last paragraph really hits the nail on the head...try not to worry.