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There's a lot for you to consider here.
- Your sorority membership is for life. Your relationship might not last nearly as long.
- This will be your only chance to attend preference and bid night from the sisters' side.
- No matter what you'd be doing on pref night, whether it would be convincing your rush crush that your sorority is the right place for her or working the desk or back room, your sisters need you. OTOH, you don't "need" to be at your boyfriend's ring ceremony, although I'm sure he'd appreciate it.
- How serious is your relationship with your boyfriend? Have you only been dating a short time, or are you "engaged to be engaged"? Do you look at his family and see potential in-laws?
Like AZTheta and KSUViolet said, there are often-severe consequences for missing recruitment. Check with your chapter officers, and weigh in the penalties for missing pref and bid night when you make your decision.
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