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Originally Posted by MaggieXi
Average conversation:
Rusher: "Where are you from"
PNM: "Philadelphia"
Rusher: "What do you like about Philadelphia?"
PNM: "Not much. I'm actually from the suburbs so I don't go into the city."
Better conversation:
Rusher: "Where are you from"
PNM: "The Philadelphia area. I miss it, but am so glad that I chose to go to this university."
Rusher: "What do you like about Philadelphia?"
PNM: "Well, the cheese steaks of course! But I really like the history of the city. Have you ever been to Philly?"
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Excellent example, MaggieXi!
elizey7, Do you see what's going on here? From conversation #1, there was so little offered back that the Rusher has to scramble to come up with a follow-up question. In conversation #2, the PNM has given her Rusher a number of things to talk about -- why she chose that university, cheese steaks, history, and going to Philly/travel.
Get it? People want to hang out with other people who are fun and interesting.