[33girl]

One of the Bs you're supposed to avoid is Bible. BIG NO NO.

And yes, it would be equally annoying if the PNM wanted to start a scrapbooking hour or something within the chapter. You have NO idea if the chapter has tried something or not and if it's succeeded or not, and you have no idea what the chapter needs in general. Focus on conveying YOUR special talents, let the chapter decide if they're an asset.

Along these lines, I would probably be turned off by a pnm who talked incessantly about "leadership" - that would make me feel like she's just trying to pad her resume. That's my personal opinion, however.