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Your questions are not unusual and don't hesitate to ask away.
I agree with what everyone has answered, hendriski has a good perspective as well.
On finances, I have to agree with Cream and Leslie.
I have heard of some cases where if you were raised with the promise of college and your father has the money he is obligated to pull through for you. This may be some "funky" Napoleonic law, but it's not UNHEARD of. Maybe you should sit down with him and find out "what's what", and have a job on the side to cover your bases. If it would be a struggle to work, be an active member of your sorority and keep your grades up, you may want
to think a little harder about your decision, especially if you are a Freshman and Sophomores going through recruitment is common.
Sisters ALWAYS seem to pull through when it comes to getting a date. Some of the most "datable" young ladies are a far cry from
the model image. In college, it will be easier because eveyone has grown up a lot and the realization that "pretty is as pretty does" starts to sink in. Not for EVERYONE of course, there will always be guys who seek a trophy, but the field gets a little wider.
Knowing or not knowng actives-hmmmm it can go either way. Leslie said it bestIf they think positively of you, I assume it can only help.
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