[QUOTE]Originally posted by daisymargarita:
I'm not dropping out! 
I do want to give these two chapters a chance.
Good for you! That is a very positive response ~
I guess I just don't understand why they want me, because I don't see how I could have made any impression on them.
There could be a million reasons ~ which is why you should attend pref. It is very symbolic and the person who pref's you will tell you what she and the chapter sees in you. Listen carefully to her, and ask her questions about her bond with her sisters (i.e., what is your most special memory?) These types of questions allow her to open up to you and show you a little more about how she feels about the sisterhood ~ which is exactly what you need to know to make an informed decision!
A friend of my family's is an alum of one of these chapters, and I really liked her
How exciting! I'm sure she has represented her group well. That's the best part of being greek - not 4 years but 4 life!
Thanks for all your advice!
The advice is free...sisterhood is priceless! Keep us informed no matter what - you have my personal email now so I expect to hear updates...LOL!
Good luck & best wishes!
[This message has been edited by AXO Alum (edited September 21, 2000).]