Yeah I've had it happen a few times myself.
I was dating a guy right before formal rush began. I had toyed around with the idea, but decided to take a gutsy move and do it. Well this guy decided to bash my sorority of choice (which at the time was Pi Phi!) and told me he wouldn't take the time to visit me when I joined because the house was too far away to walk. He belittled me and sororities in general, and told me it was a bad idea and that he'd hold it against me if I did decide to rush. For some reason I stayed with him over winter break, but once I came back for formal rush I changed my mind. The real clincher was the fact that I called him in tears during the middle of the second day of rush because I was scared to death of being cut. And you know what he told me? "Why are you calling me?" Needless to say I joined Pi Phi and dumped his sorry butt the day after Bid Day.
I also went out on a date with a guy who attends a non-greek school. I told him I was a Pi Beta Phi, but he could never pronounce the Phi right. (He said it like Alpha Phi). I kept telling him that it was "Fie", but he had the nerve to say that he took a greek class and that he knew how to pronounce it! I'm sorry, but I think I know how to say my own GLO name!
Needless to say my wonder boyfriend now supports the fact that I'm greek!
PPL,
Erin