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Also remember that sometimes the "star PNM that everyone wants" turns out to be a blah and uninvolved sister at best, and a divisive force in the chapter at worst. She might be a daughter of someone famous, drop dead gorgeous and involved in every activity there is, but she also might be crushingly wrong for your chapter. It doesn't pay to get too starry-eyed.
As the two previous posters said - CONVERSATION!!! Do some role-playing until all of you can successfully extract yourselves from ANY conversational landmines that might occur.
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It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
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