NatalieCD--
I'd love to know what school you go to that ostracizes people for following the rules! That, to me, is insane. Our campus USED to not even look at girls who would depledge, but that has long since been done away with. To any new member on this board, or potential new member, if you are hazed and feel you should report it, you should by all means do so. Change doesn't happen because of the closemindedness of the statements like
"you might as well leave the school because nobody is going to be behind you"