going to those extra pref parties will be kind of awkward for you, since you KNOW you would never join, and they'll be bending over backward to try to convince you to become their sister, but just suffer through it and do your best to be polite.
i think that you ought to suicide, since you're positive there is only one place for you. the worst possible thing to do would be to list the other 2 sororities on your pref card, get a bid from one of them, and then not accept the bid or de-pledge in a few days. because if you do this, you could be keeping another rushee out, who really wanted that sorority. since you're suiciding, just be prepared for all possible outcomes. plenty of girls DO end up getting their second choice, so there's a chance you won't get a bid, even though everything looks peachy with your favorite house. i was POSITIVE that i would get my first choice house, based on the things they said to me during the parties, and how much i had in common with the girls, and i was STUNNED when i got my bid from my second choice. strange things happen on bid day, but everything works out for the best in the end.
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