Ok, let's say you have the money and your partner is ok with it.
It depends a lot on the school you're attending. If you are going to a very traditional school like Big 10, SEC, Pac 10, you are going to be required to attend a LOT of fraternity functions, and spending a lot of time away from your family.
If you're at a largely commuter school, fraternity life may be less "busy" but with fewer members in the chapter, each is asked to give more of themselves, and everyone needs to be there. You're going to have times where you need to drop everything due to your child and even the most laid back chapter will get tired of that quickly.
Also, some chapters require you to live in the house at some point.
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