The woman at your national office most likely made your chapter follow the national rules-it was not like she was out to get your personally. It is just that when you join a sorority you agree to abide by certain rules and requirements that are for ALL members.
As others have suggested, call your headquarters directly and see if there is something you can do to be reinstated as a full member.
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