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Clearly you are only going to be happy if you go through formal rush. There's a phrase I learned from EMILY'S List: BOLTY - best of luck to ya. I, and most of my compatriots from large schools think you are full on nuts for turning down a perfectly good bid to 2 different sorority chapters. But your responses have made clear what you want to do. So politely decline the sororities who have given you bids, tell them you want to go through rush in the fall and say something to let them know that you look forward to meeting them again during formal rush. And then hope to god none of them take your utter flakiness as a turn off and cut you round one.
And then I would seriously start working to address this serious problem, self-admitted, that you want to defer personal decisions to other people, even to the hand of fate. Because choosing a spouse or a career is going to make you catatonic.
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"Traveling - It leaves you speechless, then turns you into a storyteller. ~ Ibn Battuta
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