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Confused, I think that you may have answered your question.
: )

P.S. Wise words from Titchou -- EVERY house will be over the top during formal recruitment. Each member will LOOOOVE her house. It's a seductive, high octane, staged carnival. Fun, yes, but not representative of day to day life. With informal, you get to see how sisters interact in a normal setting.

P.P.S. We are members of different groups, and we all want to give your Mom a bid. : D