[pinksequins]

Confused, Navane's advice is spot-on. Your posts suggest you may difficulty making choices with less than perfect information. That is going to be the case with most choices in life. Now that you have met upwards of 7 groups, you have seen a good cross-section of chapters. That none of them have spoken to you suggests that you are looking for something unrealistic. So your choice now is to politely decline and proceed with formal recruitment or take a good hard inward look and say, "You know, I am not going to be swept off my feet by any of them even in the fall because that only happens in Disney movies or to Reese Witherpoon and her pink chihuahua". Reread Navane's advice again as you decide.

Also, reread Dubaissis' distinction between informal and formal. You will meet all of the groups, but you will receive invitation lists prior to ensuing rounds. Those lists may not be houses with that woo-hoo feeling and may include many that you have seen now. They often won't match your listings (because it really is the chapters that hold the cards as to whom to invite again.) You also will be seeing them in a faster more structured setting.

I am wondering, have you not met any sorority women in your dorm or classes that help you form any opinion on a group?