[navane]

OP, I'm concerned that you sound so hung-up on meeting all of the chapters - even though you readily admit the chapters you've already met have had nice girls and you've received TWO bids.

It sounds to me like you're waffling so much that you can't make a decision on the choices in front of you. I wouldn't want you to take a bid at COB and then spend your days staring over at another house wishing that maybe you could have been a member somewhere else. If it's going to bother you in the bottom of your heart and you will always wonder "what if", then, yes, my personal opinion is to go do formal recruitment. Just keep in mind that formal recruitment may or may not work out the way you had planned or hoped; BUT, at least you got to "meet all of the houses", right?

Sometimes in life, we have to put our big girl pants on and make the call and not rely on everyone else (ie. strangers on the internet) to tell us what we should do. YOU are the one who needs to make the final call.