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Originally Posted by thetalady
Sweetie, what you and maybe your sister were told was a white lie to save you from embarrassment. Legacies are not dropped by accident. Cross cutting is not real under RFM.
Dropping out of rush while you the opportunity to join a sorority that WANTED YOU will not get you much sympathy here. And that is also going to have an impact on you if you choose to rush again. Expect to be dropped quickly by those sororities that you turned your back on this year.
Please don't misunderstand... if you would not have accepted a bid from those chapters that you had pref invites to, then that was the right thing to do, IMHO.
The thing you have to understand, hopefully with maturity, is that YOU might have rejected your chance at sorority membership.
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I truly am not looking for sympathy, I am just trying to get some honest feedback to help me make my decision for the coming year. That is what I have been given so far and I really am so thankful for all of it.
I definitely agree with you and understand the consequences of my actions last year. I do not regret dropping after pref night, however, because I know that it gave me time to set my roots elsewhere at my university and ponder more on greek life and what it means to me. I will go into sorority recruitment next year knowing that I may not have the best chances, but I know that this is the best option for me and I will be prepared for whatever happens.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read and respond, though!