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Originally Posted by soccergirl
I do not blame RFM or other sororities personally for my being cut, but I was just reiterating what people within my legacy told my sister when she and her sorority sisters questioned why I was cut early.
Also, I ended up going up until pref night to view the other sororities and realized that I truly did not feel like I fit in at the ones I had left and decided to drop before bid day.
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Sweetie, what you and maybe your sister were told was a white lie to save you from embarrassment. Legacies are not dropped by accident. Cross cutting is not real under RFM.
Dropping out of rush while you the opportunity to join a sorority that WANTED YOU will not get you much sympathy here. And that is also going to have an impact on you if you choose to rush again. Expect to be dropped quickly by those sororities that you turned your back on this year.
Please don't misunderstand... if you would not have accepted a bid from those chapters that you had pref invites to, then that was the right thing to do, IMHO.
The thing you have to understand, hopefully with maturity, is that YOU might have rejected your chance at sorority membership.