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Originally Posted by c0nfusedpnm
Okay, so I let both chapters know that I wasn't ready to make a decision and they both told me that I would have 48 hours to decide.  The next event I had RSVP'd to go to doesn't happen until Tuesday...so now I really have a decision to make. Because if I want to meet any other houses I will have to decline both sororities that have offered me bids. This really sucks.
I agree with 33girl. I guess it's my fault for not going through formal but, it'd be nice since so many sororities are participating in COB that they had a specific date they'd give out bids.
I really like the first house but, I want to see the other houses too just so that I can be completely sure that they are the right one for me. I get the concept that you'll never not be in a "What if..." situation but, I wanted to see a little bit more before I up and decided. Joining a sorority is a huge time and financial commitment and I want to know that I'm making an informed decision.
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You are wise to step away from posting here to think quietly about your next move. Your schoolwork needs to remain paramount, too.